Re: how is this even possible?
Agreed that Chase is "on it’ big time! Even with big purchases I make myself, I often get calls to verify it before its approved.
Since I don’t use debit cards, not sure if this is possible but can you change the option to use it as a DEBIT ONLY? Of course, this also may make it a hassle for you to use it depending on where you go.
To be honest…based on how many times I’ve dealt with this (and sounds like you have Chase too), I honestly wouldn’t freak out too much about this. Take the simple precausions…such as not using it in shady places, tear ALL mail into small pieces before throwing it into garbage etc. But this is not something to be overly paranoid about in my opinion.