Wow gr8 question
How to deal with annoying or real annoying child is hard.
Why because they are extra ordinary genius or you spoiled him/her. Still must be genius.
How to deal with?
buchchay jitnay chotay hon utna unko sambhalna asaan hota hai.
If you spoiled him/her then genius kids become realy annoying.
So you have to tackle them with your geniusness.
first find out what the reasons behind his annoying behaviour.
Is it your extra caring, love or choot on ghalties.
It those are the reasons then be little bit strict. Use someone to have strick way on him/her may be your husband, brother or husbands brother. No matter where they live. You can use phone.
Find out his/her interest and involve him/her in that.
As genius ppl are and mostly boys have more energy so it need to be utilized so they become annyoing when they don’t get a way to utilize their energy.
You have to find things to utilize his/her energy to the full in his favourite activity. Like thaka denay wala kaam along with interesting.
That might be a game, making things and create something. You can also use dollar/pound shop stuffs to involve in like books for drawing, toys etc etc.
Let them pick themselves.
Never scream and be little in front of anyone. That way they become dheet. Like he knows he is that way his/her mother knows I’m that way so he would do things same.
I disagree with Red Velvet don’t say things about one kid in front of other kid that way they will hate and become jealous and think mom prefers him/her and or love him/her.
Yes infront of others when he is listening.
Appreciate his/her work more.
Put their creations on wall.
Show love and strickness.
If he really annoys you then as what I did to my sisters son said okay You tung your mom I’m taking my sister with me then you guys have to live alone without your mom" then he become really shareef.
Don’t show too much love when they do something wrong be strict no matter what.
As my nephew had some problem and is sick from after few days of his birth so my sister always let him do whatever he wanted and listen to him and prefer him on every one so he become so budmaash he even use to hit my sis and keep crying.
As one day when she was visiting me we were in train he was crying kheenching my sister I saw tears in my sister eyes she is realy a tough lady. I saw my nephews behaviour and understood problem everyone was looking at him and us. We were all ashamed.
When we come back home I said to my sister you spoiled him and letting him that much to do to you. She said he is sick. I said no matter what you don’t have to compromise on budtamizi. Lets see what ilaaj I choose for him.
I could have dealt with him at that time but I prefer not to. As I left him when he was too yourng and he use to love me a lot so I didn’t want to lose his love by sakhtiing.
My sister was going to my brother. I called him and ask him to scare him. How take the older brother to room. Before mys sister will say things to my brother that he doesn’t listen to me and give me tough time then they will take him to a room make sound as they are hitting him very baad lol. That did all drama and screaming you give hard time to your mom. lol
Before leaving I said to my nephew mama is so sakht and ghussay walay and bohat martay badmaash aur budtamez buchchon ko agar tum nain wahan kuch kia to wo bohat marain gay.
So he become scared. Behave well. They still phone and ask how he doing then he run away or cry or say naheen main to bilkul tang naheen karta ammi ko. lol
Yeah my sister spoiled him with lots of love.
My rule is no matter what " NO compromise on tameez at all pyar say na manay jooton say sure maan lain gay"
“aik do dafa ki pitaai, Hamaisha ki sudhrai”
You spoiled him/her you have to sudhar him. Best way is by loving with some strictness. Appriciating and encouraging.
Find things according to need and energy of him/her. I mean Physical things to do.