Re: how do u forgive and forget??
I read it somewhere that "Nobody hurts you but its you, yourself!" and to some extent it is also quite right as most of the time we give the chance to others to hurt us. We become weak, emotional fools at times and people take advantage of it. Ofcourse everyone is weak, no matter whatever we do or say or how hard we try to be strong but those close to us know very well where we are lacking and that is why it is said not everything should be told, few things are supposed to be hidden.
Ofcourse its not even easy to forgive, let alone forgetting it, specially when it comes to cheating. With the passage of time you may forgive, but forgetting is still difficult, in my case not possible. How can you forget someone who has given you so much pain, heartache, tears, tough time? Time may heal everything but what about memories?