funguy:
How did people find out she had conceived before the marriage?
People don’t have to know all this. She can lie about her date a little bit and then just call it pre-mature delivery once the baby is born.
She got married when she was in her 4th or 5th month so the premature excuse wouldn’t work any way when she would have a (hopefully iA) healthy full term baby.
u cant do much in this case. since it’s totally unethical as well as unislamic.. but lack of education, and awareness about religion plus her young age, these are the factors that led to this. how r her in laws treating her btw ?
you just can console her..**tell her the importance of having legal children both due to moral reasons and being a muslim as well as cultural factors. Now because of her ignorance she’s actually missing on the greatest joys of life, transition into motherhood..
Um…like I said, we know this already…there’s no use lecturing her, she feels plenty ashamed and i feel sad for her.