Khumar
December 5, 2010, 8:14am
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Re: Hot women
What do they deserve though? ^
I have a big problem with this theory that people deserve special treatment based on things Allah swt BESTOWED upon them. They didnt do anything to get it…it was GRANTED to them. When you work hard in school, you graduate a diploma because you deserve it. When you are a diligent employee, your boss recognizes your work, promotes and you get a raise because you deserve it. These things are deserved…not the BS we let people get away with because they’re hot. Its not deserved. And if it is, Allah didnt make it that way…we did.
Everyone is Allah ki makhluq and beautiful in one way or another…looks that were literally handed to you on a plate do not entitle anyone to anything. As in nothing.
People respond better to attractive people. This has been proven. And you can’t just say that it’s a culture thing because babies have been shown to be more responsive to attractive people. Now, morally, do they deserve special treatment? Of course not. But you will treat them differently because you’re human and you’re built to be attracted to good looking people.
Good looking usually means symmetrical facial features among other things which point to a healthier individual (usually) and thus, you’re attracted to them. For men, being bigger and stronger attracts women when they’re ovulating and women prefer more feminine looking men the rest of the time (according to studies). People also look for bodies and faces which follow the “golden ratio”
For women, a hip to waist ratio (or something like that) which follows this ratio is attractive to men. For men, I think if their upper and lower bodies etc are in this ratio, women find that attractive. Renaissance sculptures and paintings (Mona Lisa) follow this ratio.
So point being, you’re biologically wired to respond to these women (and men) and good looking people in general earn more. Fair or not, that’s the way it is. So stop hating on us beautiful people
What Ghost said. We’re born to respond to these subtle things around us. Now if we are talking about using what God gave us, then we should use the brain that He gave us and be able to over come what’s programmed into us. Maybe next time it’s very gross out because the snow is melting and it’s muddy everywhere and there is ice, we should say “hey, this is beautiful too” instead of complaining about it.