Yesterday 48 hours[TV-program-CBS] reported some stories relating to “honor killing.” It was devastating to see what they reported. I often do not trust the “western” media and I do not like the way they twist the facts. Anyway, I am not here to talk about the western media or any other non-sense relating to the west it self.
I am here to talk about our own “society and cultural” problems. First of all, the stories they reported:
http://cbsnews.cbs.com/now/story/0,1597,242264-412,00.shtml
(CBS) Jason and Meriam Johnson insist nothing will ever come between them But there are powerful forces trying to pull them apart.
Their romance has become an international incident. In the name of love, they’ve broken laws and defied a royal family. Correspondent Harold Dow reports.
To Americans, she’s a princess (her exact title is sheika) but by coming to the United States with Jason Johnson, Meriam al Khalifa may have put her life in danger. She could risk being sent to jail, she said.
“Because of her relationship with me, she should be lashed, executed, stone, killed, shot,” said Jason Johnson.
Their story began in Bahrain, a tiny island nation in the Persian Gulf. Johnson was stationed there with the U.S. Marines. The son of a truck driver, he had grown up in a tough neighborhood in Long Beach, Calif. Being overseas was a welcome adventure.
Bahrain certainly looks like a modern country but beneath the surface of video games and fast food, it’s a land of time-honored customs. Women in particular are expected to play by the old rules.
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“If you go out a lot, you get a bad reputation,” said al Khalifa Johnson. “The best thing to do is just stay at home and not be seen.”
Seventeen-year-old Meriam al Khalifa, a high school senior, liked going out. She was at the mall when friends introduced her to Johnson.
“When I saw her, she caught my attention. She was very gorgeous,” he recalled.
She spoke flawless English. Because dating was out of the question, Jason Johnson and Meriam al Khalifa became secret friends.
“To me he was crazy or like kind of funny,” she said. “He made us all laugh.”
But it was months before Johnson discovered his new friend was a member of Bahrain’s royal family. She said she thought he would get scared and she didn’t want to risk losing the friendship.
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The al Khalifas have ruled Bahrain for centuries. As a member of the extended family, Meriam is entitled to money, privilege and prestige.
As a young royal, she met a more famous royal, Princess Diana, when she was 5.
And royals also have special obligations.
“When we get married, we have to get married to someone who’s in the royal family, too; we have to keep the name and the blood,” she explained.
Johnson did not have the right name, nationality, or religion. He’s a Mormon; she’s a Muslim.
“I know a lot of people said I was crazy. I’m not crazy. I just know what I want,” said al Khalifa Johnson.
The Marine and the sheika secretly met at the movies. Then, one day, Meriam made a daring move. She kissed him, though she said she hadn’t been planning to.
“It was one of those innocent kisses that your grandmother would give you before you go to bed,” Jason Johnson recalled.
And somebody saw them. The next day, Meriam’s mother laid down the law. Her mother told her, she had five minutes to call her boyfriend and end it, she recalled.
But weeks later, Meriam defied her parents again and called the Marine. That sparked a flurry of passionate letters.
With Jason Johnson’s days in Bahrain dwindling, the couple hatched a bold plan. Meriam would go back to America with him secretly. She would sneak out of her house late at night and meet him in a car parked nearby.
Meriam recalls they were supposed to meet at 11; if she didn’t show up by that hour, he should leave; she would not be going.
Jason Johnson and his friends had carefully planned the escape, he said; they studied security procedures at the airport. They used night vision goggles to peer inside the airport while driving around, he explained.
One friend fashioned documents that helped transform the sheika into a U.S. Marine.
At the appointed hour, Johnson dutifully waited for 45 minutes.
But Meriam was having second thoughts. Finally, she made the hardest decision of her life, which she described in her diary: “I closed the door, turned off the lights and opened the window. I knew I was following my heart.”
Disguised in a Yankee cap and baggy pants, Meriam sped off to the airport with Johnson.
“I really don’t know what they would have done to Meriam,” he recalled. “But then again, failure wasn’t an option so I tried not to think about it.”
“That was my fear,” she said. “That I’d get caught, and that he’d get caught and, you know, everything’s just going to go wrong.”
Finally, they were on a plane together but there was a crucial error. Since she forgot to lock her bedroom door, her absence was discovered in the morning, Johnson said.
Meriam’s parents immediately notified authorites. So when Jason Johnson and Meriam al Khalifa landed in Chicago, they were stopped, Johnson said.
There was another related story on a Pakistani couple[Humera and manu(not sure of his name). They were in love and wanted to marry and their families did not approve of it and ran away…yada yadaa yaddaa…Now the most stupid part is that, father of Humera had promised his brother to give his daughter to the son of his brother even before she was born!!!
What is wrong with these stupid, ignorent people that they marry or engage someone who is not even born yet???
I think it ought to change and IT must change. This is not how it should be! These people do not deserve this and there MUST be another solution to thise disease that is taking our Islamic society back to the pre-Islamic times. :mad:
V~V~VHe came, He saw, He conqueredV~V~V**
[This message has been edited by The Watcher (edited October 21, 2000).]
Take it easy sir.