Re: Honeymoon
Weddings are long drawn out occasions, notably the preceeding weeks that take a lot out of you both physically and mentally. Even though honeymoon's are now very much commercialised making you pressurised into going on one, I don't think its any harm having a few days/weeks off together to get aquainted and to basically chill out for a while. For me, splashing out on lavish honeymoon's is a little OTT and unreal for lies ahead once its over.
But I agree with the above folks, you've gotta make it last a lifetime.