. hm. i am not sure if you get ajar for obeying or being acting like a slave. I see several sisters wearing hijab but at the same time cursing at their parents and AStagfirullah islamic teachings itself. Not sure if they are getting any sawab from that?
but those who force their daughters dont realize they are comming gunna at some points. Parents should teach the importantace of hijab and obligation of it from a very early age. But if their child fail to follow that, (we are talking about older age around 18 ) she would have to answer her own deeds. Parents have done their part.
you are right. I don’t understand that either, you have to teach them from a very young age. I think it becomes their choice around 18 something. Give me some exact reffernce from Quran if you know any.
dont be sorry i love discussing topics on islam. If i am wrong i learn something dont i
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Indeed! its mandatory for them to follow the teachings of islam. But if they dont then what can you do? Prophet PBUH never approached anyone with violence.
Guys if you know some other hadith and references to the verses of Quran shareef plz do let me know
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Originally posted by XChorniX:
** well it's true but den wut if da kids don't understand?? i mean arrite parents' duty is to tell da kids how important it is n explain it to dem but wut if da kids ain't ready fo it yet?? n if u MAKE them wear it which is not by their own choice, wut r they gonna do outside?? they can take it off rite when they get outa their house or if sum1 asks em dat if they wore it by choice they b like o no ma parents made me even though i din't want to..n jus imagine wut da non-muslims will think..they arready make up BS bout islam..i mean isn't it dat if da girl is not ready fo it she shuldn't cuz if she jus wears it cuz she's forced by her parents n not cuz she wants to or likes to or knows how important it is..n does it cuz she feels rite in her heart...but yes it is upto da parents too that they teach their children bout dis n make dem understand..
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Sister it's the parents job to do their duty the best they can, if they've done their best and the kids still don't understand, then it's not on them, insh'Allah.
Allah(swt) knows best.
As for the kids, if you are doing it just to obey your parents, then do it for that. If you do it for the sake of showing off, then do it for that. You don't get the same ajars for covering, but you do get it for obeying your parents.
Sister i haven't seen this for myself, so can't say if it's a 'saheeh' hadiths, but my grandmother always says about praying, 'first a man prays to show people, then it becomes a habit, and the insh'Allah he does it for the sake of Allah(swt)' i think this goes same for anything else.
Allah(swt) knows best. May He make us all momins. Ameen.
'Rabbee zidnee`ilmaa'
My Lord! Increase me in knowledge.[20:114]
The Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhe wa sallam) said:
"Whoever sets out on a path to seek knowledge, Allaah will make easy his path to Paradise."
[Saheeh Muslim]