im not dumb .. i said to him last tiem he called that il ove you but i dunt trust you n he said he if u dunt trust me then screw you but if u do then call me back .. but i didnt call him bakc yet .. n i dunt want ot ge tinto personal details of where i met him n y i love him .. but im enchanted wiht hoim .. the way he talks his voice everything .. im mesmeried by him .. i cant explain it
OK, do you want to hear the truth? First tell me, can you HANDLE the truth?
You both are just lusting for each other. You'll get married, do it, then want out. A few weeks later, you'll be back here with a multi asking me to delete this thread and then you'll start a new one that goes something like this:
"Hello, this is Moni28. My husband wants a divorce because he was engaged to someone else and now he has pressure to marry her. What should I do?" Then all of us will be back in that thread typing up a storm. :)
Then where did the 'married with two kids' part came from? Who told u that earlier? Did he say so himself?
U said we swore at eachother-what type of relationship is this? If he doesnt want to marry his fiance then y is he so scared to break it to his parents? Ask him to cancel his engagement then come back to u
As Niksik said, If he can't talk to his parents because he doesn't want to hurt them, and because he is pressurized, what makes you think he will ever be able to tell his parents about you two after you guys secretly marry each other? Would he be pressurized to marry his fiance then? Is it fair to your parents to have their daughter married secretly? Or fair to you to have a wedding like that? Are you two planning to keep this wedding a secret fot the rest of your lives? If not, then he will have to come out to his parents one day or another, why not when it really matters(NOW)! If you have no respect for your self, atleast have some for your parents, their daughter deserves to be married off with respect and dignity.
Why would you want to marry someone too weak to stand up to his parents? So let's say he marries you. How do you think you'll feel about him when 2 years down the line, he putting his parent's needs wayyyy above yours. You think you'll still be in love with this guy?
What a messed up situation you have put yourself into! Why are you asking for advice when you are not willing to take it. I guess you are waiting for someone to say, what you are doing is wonderful, go ahead and marry the so called enchanting and mesmerising dude....ewww and ughhh!!
Go and marry him, you two were made for eachother. Your parents don’t understand and will never understand. You are two star-crossed lovers and the world is your oyster…