When you move baby to new bed, how do you soothe them when they cry to continue sleeping in new bed? Should I take son with me to pick out his bedding? I mean isn't he too young...oh boy so lost.
Afro thats a good idea, take ur son with u and let him select the bed himself...
Initially you'll have to sleep with him in his room not with him on his bed but in the same room, and in the middle of the night when he wakes up and cries you'll just have to go with him and tell him that you're there. Dont pick him up and transfer on ur own bed, but encourage him to sleep on his own... During the first week when he sleeps all night on his bed, reward him with something and tell him that its for him being brave and sleeping on his own bed.
Repeat the words "do you want to sleep on ur own bed like a big boy?"
lets go to ur own bed room...
and trick him into liking his bed by saying " oh ur bed seems so good and comfy, i want to sleep here... can i take ur bed?" etc...
He'll start atleast liking his bed... But u cant really help him from waking up in the middle of the night and wanting to move in with u guys. Its going to take some time and patience, but inshaAllah it'll work.. dont encourage him to go and sleep in ur bed.