she starts crying innit if i say sthg 2 her ok ok ill be honest yea she found out i ave anova gf innit but y she in hysterics??? i fink i gv both equl tym innit u can marry 4 tymes anywayz so y cant i ave 2 gfs??? i didn relize i wnt be sleepin coz of dis innit. its takin its toll on me yea
For a start your not married to her, you can’t expect to be able to exercise certain Islamic (as you interpret**) rights as a husband, especially when you don’t seem to be able to fulfil basic Islamic responsibilities of a husband.
To be honest I think you should stay away from all women until you can be totally honest and upfront with them.
** I do know a man can have 4 wifes, but the wives in question have right to know that, along with a whole range of other rights you don't seem to be fulfilling either!