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@Orpheus

a 12 gauge to the cranium.

i have no idea…what u said

@X2

if he is your friend tell him how it impacts you.
maybe his intentions are not what u think they are.
maybe they are
ether way be open, and either you guys will find a solution or you would realize you guys no longer can be buddies

we have had countless talks over the issue . .. .. and some times things go way out of hand we end up not talking for days or weeks .. . but then he calls me and talks like as if nothing happened… i dont brag abt what happened earlier either and he behave normally for a while. . ..

@meena_s

he is neither your friend, nor a good person… because of the reason you mentioned above… so… you just ignore, and try avoiding him.

he is a good person, thats what he looks. He would talk to u nicely and behave properly, keeps smiling. . . . but with me his behavior is totally different.

@Straight_up

Please refer to “how to deal with annoying people” thread in All Views.

sure

@citrine

thapard maro use

i remember i slapped one onoyiong class fellow in grade mmmmmm 5th or 6th i guess. whole class went quite .. . and he kept his distance after words .. . . and one other guy at school … . . .printed my hand on his face and all my friends went woooww and then bilkul theek kiya tum ne. . .

@ChiLLyMiLLy

Lol citrine.. ussay usko seedha kardega na?

But on a serious note..

If he’s your friend then:

1. a friend is not jealous, rather appreciates what you achieve in life and encourages you to achieve more.

2. a friend is not judgmental, but he will give u constructive criticism.

3. you must be able to talk to your friend about this. Just honest and straight up about how it makes you feel. And a friend shouldn’t make you feel bad, but good about yourself.

1. he never appreciates what i do and pull out some thing from what ever i do or say to brag abt. Once i wanted to use his PC i turned on the PC. It didnt work. . . after my investigation i found that power supply has been burnt due to power surge . . . … next thing every body knew that I have broken as in “kharab kerna” his PC. In front of me he use to tell every next person “is ne mera computer kharab ker diya hai”. for next 2-3 days he made my life miserable until i put a new power supply in it. and what did i do wrong, turned on the power switch

2. when i was new 3 years back as in FOB, used to live with another friend who use to say k “Hindu k hath ka khana nahy kha saktey”. He visited me at our home and we discussed abt the topic. I remember i said “i m not sure, i dont know the rulling but i have heard that Hindu k hath ka khana nahy kha sakte . . .so i tend to avoid”. After that day in each and every gathering he brings up that issue and declares me a racist and says that i said that we cant eat food from hindus. Time and over i have told him thats not what i said and i still say what i said before. I dont know, no matter what i say he translates it into his own meanings and try to embarace me and some times says such stupid stuff that i start thinkin as if he really is my friend.

He is always trying to put words in your mouth and make stories. . .like 2 days back he convinced me to drop him off at the Sydney airport which is abt 300KM from here. I took a day off from work. told him that i cant take my car as its service is due and there is some work needs to be done on front suspension. So we agreed to hire a car. We both went thru the site and chose one car. It happens to be Falcon XR6 Turbo. . … i booked the car with the understanding that he would pay the 100 and i ll take car of the rest which is abt 70 dollars. Next day some thing happened at Bangkok airport and he canceled his ticket changing the route and day of travel. I said ok no worries.. . .and he said sorry that u wont be able to drive that car u wanted drive. giving the impression as if i was going to get my hands on that car for a day on his expense or because of him and i wanted take advantage of the opportunity. I just looked at his face and tried to understand what he is trying to say. “I was the one who took a day off from work for him, i was the one going 300Ks up and down wasting the whole day just trying to help him, I was the one who booked the car which we both agreed to hire, i was even sharing the expence. I dont have a credit card and one cannot hire a car without a credit card so i contacted a third person my other friend who agreed to use his credit card for me”. Still he managed to say those words to me.

and few days back he did some thing so shocking in sydney and i was the one feeling embaraced and responsible

even last night i was sitting in his house using his computer when i started this topic. he knows the site now and probably would visit and see this topic.

To hell with u man, i m fed up. I always considered u my best friend to be there for me, to support me. I use to share every thing with u but u always made fun and gave me hard time. You were never there for me and i think it should end now. dont blaady call me “oh mera jiggar, meray dost” u dont know the meanings of these words. I always tried to forget the past but not this time. u need to really think abt ur attitude and change, i dont feel comfortable around u now as u dont around shahid and imran. otherwise this would be our final goodbye at the airport next week.