HE is hot?

[Princess_Fiona]

Re: HE is hot?

@Impulse

thanks Janwar

you made me see some sense there. and I agree with everything u r saying. I still dont think its right to have a bf. I know its wrong…i agree with everything u said. u put it very well.

but my point is that there have been many proposals that came for me, but most of the times I hadnt even seen the guy…and my friends and everyone said that I should at least see him and meet him…before I say NO.
but I dont know wot it is that has till this day been making me just say a straight “no” to any proposal that parents talk to me about. Im not trying to be funny here…but I have had proposals from north, south, east and west…as in from Pakistan, America, and up and down in uk.

and I dont know why I just straight up say no even though I wasnt with anyone at some of the times that I had been asked…i.e. I didnt like anyone else.

so my point is I cant see myself marrying some1 I hardly know. thats something I cant do

so there is no other way for me to go about it apart from getting to know a guy the way I am. is there?

you suggest wot I should do

impulse dear islam never says to marry a guy whom u have never seen.. it all depends on ur “yes”.. islam doesnt say that have boy friend, talk about him to everyone and then have a relationship with him before his sending a rishta for u then after a couple of months of going out with him , asking him to send rishta that is not allowed in islam.. wat is allowed is if the guys is sending rishta then u can go out with the guy meet him.. talk to him then think about it and then decide..