@nik ...thnkz :)
@TLK .. i didnt mean that the woman should earn enough herself and then go for hajj. all i meant is that being a family unit, if the hubby n wife save money together even if only the husband is working the wife isnt, she is still responsible for all the budget making and saving, so if both of them save it and then go for Haj, m sure that would be worthier. Anything you put in an effort for becomes more valued . :)
See if husband and wife have done the haj before getting married, they can wait for 16-17-18 yrs till their kids get into adult age and go with them so now their kids are done and when they get married they can wait for their kids to grow up.
I like this arrangement better than hubby and wife leaving their babies behind and going by themselves.