Habits...

[Sidra_1]

Re: Habits…

@redvelvet

I can relate to several of your habits.

I steal my brothers old t-shirts. I’ll use them as sleepwear.

I’m very conscious of not wanting the other person to feel that I’m not paying attention to them, so I maintain eye contact during a conversation. And when there is more than one person, I make a conscious effort to make eye contact with all parties while talking…because in the back of mind…I don’t want any one of them to feel left out.

I am very observant of people. I like to people-watch. I like studying and analyzing people, their expressions, etc etc. When my bil first cam with his parents with my sister’s rishta…I noticed bil’s mom touch her forehead. So, I knew she had a headache. No one else had noticed. Told my sister to get her an advil…y’know…make her look even more awesome than she already is, lol. Win-win.

I need conflicts to be resolved quickly…and with loved ones…preferably before going to sleep. This can be a problem if the other person is the kind who needs time and space to cool down…in which case my efforts would annoy them more.

I can let things build up. I can let sooooo many little things slide and then blow up at you when I’ve had enough and by that time the person may not remember all their little mistakes up until the last straw.

Glad to know that I’m not alone doing all that lol

Yup the eye contact is mostly to make the other person feel heard and also to actually observe them. Like how true are they to their words.

That’s exactly how I am as well, I can sense if someone is having a low/high bp, headaches and I’ll make sure not to leave them until I am satisfied that they feel better Can sound pretty parano as well rotfl

For the last one, this is so so so accurate !! I will remember even the smallest mistake and then I’ll bring it up at the end. People may have totally forgotten that but that’s how I behave