Wow brother qurash.. what happens if that person turns out to be ogre dressed-up as a member? What if the person is a good "poster" but mean to u?
but you hold good questions :( what then?
how do you look for someone only to find they're not your type? how do you break it off then?
or better yet.. how do you get first time lucky with no "you're not my type" business? :(