Re: Grudges
To me holding grudge is not worth. It takes way too many brain-cycles. And I have things to do in life.
I cant give up sanity.
BUT
I also cant deny that some time you cant help getting angry. Some time ppl ask for some thing.
Some time ppl do some thing that if you don't get even it haunts you.(NOT TALKING ABOUT ONLINE WORLD)
In that case I try to get even ASAP. So I can move on with my life. Life is too short for paying for some one else mistake.
Holding grudge IS infact you paying the price. While person who caused it could be having fun.