dont know any pushto or punjabi… but all i can say is that all of last year i spent in paki for a termnially ill grandma, and it would have to be one of the best htings u could probably do in your life… all these ppl need is someone to talk to them, take interest in what they are saying… make your niyat b4 u go that u will inshallah please Allah SWT with this beautiful act and inshallah Allah SWT will reward u greatly…