[quote="McPendo, post:102, topic:203717"]
Why not become a sufi and tread on the path or asceticism, eliminating desires and heart wrenching women and finding Nirvanaaaa ahhhhh PEPSI!!! DIL MANGE MOAR! Now back to your question. My dear man do no forget that Man is forever lost in his own lusts. I am quite certain that you haven't in your life read the translation in the Quran and i can bet 100,000 rupees that when you do you'll fall down your head crying to God asking him forgivness and thanking him for making you a muslim and showing a spiritual path so brilliant and unriveld on this earth that if you were from other religion you'd be one of the disbelievers. There are ways to control these desires and as Sufi shayakh Ali Jujwiri Datta Ganjbaksh says there is no flame that can be put out no desires that can be quenched but by practice and hunger and self restraint, you reach self control and self mortification. Read the Quran's translation buddy the fear of hell will make you give up your desires. READD READDDDDDD!!!! IN THE NAME OF GOD WHO CREATED MAN FROM A DROP OF BLOOD>>> Quran- surat iqra
Mcpendu dear brother.
to your shock, yeh i have read the koran and a lot fo it in translation.
Thanks for your surat iqra video though.nice.
And im well aware of the many jamaat's out there to brainwash youngmen away from thier families and duties. I try to refrain from getting too close with any jamaat.
and dude. im not in a high opnion of alleged highly relgious people. This molvis or whomsoever are no less than us and often have the most beautifullest wives themselves.
Regarding your self-control methods yeh man ofcourse I know thats there, and many of us hot dude do try them to cool us down,
but a natural urge is still natural isnt it. And even if we try to suprress ourselves the beautiful women are still out there, and in hordes of them!!!
One avoids many but in the end you always find you have succumbed some place or another. No talking about the pakistani women in particular, but more about the western ones, its summer now and tthe time when half these gori shayteens clothes come off, so everytime you go out its like fitna.
I mean sure I/we try to avoid looking at them but iits still hard.
I mean if God never gave us the bloody internal strong urge, we would be more easier able to control it.
I mean you may be able to ignore 99 nangi beshram shaytani goris walking past you, but then for some reason you may not be able to ignore the 100th one, and with ALL her ornamnets hanging out or clearly visible...you get somewhat attracted.
and how much are you going to ignore and not ignore...it all just gets so frustrating. and too much frsutration is bad for your mental health too.
no wonder so men, just say f.k it and quench themselves.
Otherwise we r labelled as perves by women.
ITS ALL JUST TOO MUCH MAN. WE SHOULDNT HAVE BEEN CREATED WITH AS HIGH AN URGE. WHY WE WERE NOT CREATED WITH SAME URGES AS WOMEN.
No wonder, God also gave us 4 wives freedom.
maybe we hve 4 times as much urge than women? Uff.
Ladies do u think its wise to look into hormonal therapy.
Bro im not a molvie i dont think highly of them as well but God gave us Quran we should not stint our spiritual experience just because we hear someone else words and decide that the whole religion is wrong. To get back to your urges dude as Quran tells us that his world is a test and a trial. There was a good discussion among a particular sufi group called the Qadris. They argued that which is greater and exalted Man or Angel? One of the sufi said Man because God made all the angles Bow down to Adam, the other said Angel because they are created above human beings have no necessity to eat sleep or have sex, they are able to travel freely without the constraints of physics involved. But one sufi in particular said that Human even though a lowly creatures has to battle every day with his desires and lusts he is in a constant state of bombardment from every where yet he keeps his sanity. On the other hand the Angel does not. Therefore Man must be exalted in Ranks. So the question here rises that his world is a Test for human spirit whosoever chooses to do wrong deeds will be punished and whosoever chooses to stay away will be rewarded. These desires these urges exist for a reason and women have it as well. I am sure you know the story of Yusuf (Peace be upon him) how the ladies of Egypt cut their hands in desire because he was so beautiful but he resented and spent many years in jail but did not have sex with a woman. God wants to see you fight you inner demons not succumb to them. Hope that helped dude!