'Giving their daughter' to you??

Re: ‘Giving their daughter’ to you??

It’s just like when some MILs tells their DILs that “itna bara ker ke, paal pos ke tumhey de diya.” I mean, were u planning to give him when he was in his diapers? I mean weren’t u supposed to educate him? And weren’t u supposed to feed him and clothe him and bathe him? Who did u give the favor to? And oh, wasn’t he supposed to get married?