Give me some space!

[KKF]

Re: Give me some space!

mere ek jaannewaale haiN India meN…jab maiN jaataa huN to vo bechaare milne zaroor aate haiN…i like to meet him but there are a few problems with his visit and i dunno how to handle that:

1. he comes unannounced and literally stays with me ALL day.

2. he tries to sit next to people he wants to talk to and he get’s real close to convey his message more effectively [well, he thinks that way!]

3. he got real bad breath…munH se fauwaarah phooTtaa hai jab baat karte haiN to…lol

4. he is a bit crazy…kinda mildly paagal

5. when he eats on the table with us, it’s really hard to tolerate his way of eating.

in moments like those, i really understand how important/desirable it is for me to have my “personal space”!

[Cashmere]

Re: Give me some space!

**I feel your pain. These kinds of people tend to be the cause of distress for over 95% of the population.
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@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

1. he comes unannounced and literally stays with me ALL day.

**"Ohh you’re here today.. I was just about to leave for [come up with a compulsory task that needs to be done] well it’s fine I’ll just sit with you for a while and then leave. And fake the urgency to get it done as soon as you decide you no longer want to be in his company.
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2. he tries to sit next to people he wants to talk to and he get’s real close to convey his message more effectively [well, he thinks that way!]

**I still have to find the solution to this for myself. Perhaps you could be doing other stuff while he’s there, so he knows it’s not the right time to cuddle since you’re busy. When he sees you open, that’s when he gets close. Always do other tasks while he’s talking but don’t forget to make eye contact with him or else that would be rude. For example, I usually start cleaning the table, doing my nails, or paint in general during a time like this. **

3. he got real bad breath…munH se fauwaarah phooTtaa hai jab baat karte haiN to…lol

**Carry mints and gums in your pocket when he’s around. As soon as his breath starts to make you feel uneasy, start eating some and offer him some too. And don’t forget to describe the health benefits of chewing mints / gum. **

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