I had a gay colleague many years ago and he was a very nice gentleman. My friendship was limited to coffee at break time in the office, a casual exchange of the days events and that’s pretty much it. I didn’t have any issues with him or his behavior. Then we had a gay realtor but that dude was really feminine..the only thing he didn’t do was wear nail paint but I can almost certainly say he wore blush. Anyway, aside from that, he was good at what he did and I again, had no issues with him.
The thing is that I really don’t care what anyone does with their life until it flows into mine in some way that I feel is negative. At that point I create a distance. It doesn’t matter if that person is a homosexual or heterosexual.
Hmm, if there is some sort of a hormonal issue or birth problem, then I dont mind people having abnormal tendencies. But otherwise, I really despise homosexuality. In my opinion, men can have a very loving relationship, they can be physically affectionate, but to be romantically attracted is not a good idea. Plus, woman is such a beautiful creation of Allah, the hair, the eyes, the lips, the curves, the softness, why would someone want to go to a man for physical intimacy.
Oh, the sarcasm ! Ya know, dont make wrong meanings of my words. I was speaking as a mere spectator. Sometimes there is a message inside a message, and its all done with a crispy clean (krispy kreme) intention. For an unconcerned soul, the message is rather puzzling and bafflesome. But I cant help it, thats just how my being is.
Ghalib iss bare mein kehte hain ke
"Goyam mushkil wagarna goyam mushkil
I compose the difficult; otherwise I have difficulty composing".
hmm, when I posted the message, I could suspect that it can land the wrong way, but I refrained from editing it. I thought pretty much anything can be taken any way, and if I keep censoring because of this fear I’ll lose my spontaneity. Please rest assured that my intention was good.
Anyhow, I am glad you didnt say what you wanted to say, that would have made me embarrassed. :sid:
First of all - not every Gay fella /Lesbian Chick wants to get in your pants so you straight people , get this out your mind first !
I know few gay people in me life , mostly from work and we have been good friends - I have never brought their sexual orientations and preferences into discussion and I have always observed my boundaries..
