At least someone should be thinking of tact in such a scenario, right? It would be nice if the guy was the one, since any potential marriage would involve him more.
However, what about the guy’s parents? His mommy, for example? Doesn’t she realize the awkwardness of the situation…that could result between two sisters? And what if she has 2 daughters close in age herself…would she bother applying the situation to herself?
Sometimes a woman’s worst enemy can be a woman. And it’s sad that those who are older…and more experienced about the ills of our culture…don’t take steps to make positive changes for the generation of younger women coming after them.