That’s my point clubber, ‘hate’ is not usually an emotion that occurs in the work place, sure we all find some people to be disagreeable. You ask how you can act professional when you hate someone? Well, that’s the hallmark of a mature person, they can move on and be professional and set aside personal feelings at work.
So you may THINK that you’re mature, but the very fact that we’re having this discussion indicates otherwise. As far as this woman, if she can’t act professional, talk to your HR department.
:CareBear:
i agree
but i think you need to change jobs...or at least change your shift
for goodness sake...this situation is wrecking your marriage life
your wife is more important than this job...
im surprised...that u are even still working with this girl
most of ur problems will end when you admit u were wrong and leave the workplace
ur typing is really offensive...i hate when grown men type like that
i hate when any man types like that...
doesnt it take more effort to write in slang?
you seem soooooooooooooooooooo young
which is the point everybody is trying to make
you have alot of maturing to do
since ur young anyways...u need to change ur job
i think ur enjoying the drama between you and this girl..or else u wouldnt stay
ignore her completely
why did u get married so young? u dont even seem ready for the responsibility?
yo gal wat up?chill u dnt hav to be a oldie to be mature.
OK il use real english. Maturity is not dependent on a persons age, it depends on how they been brought up and how they view life. Age plays a part to an extent but once we become adults eg can tell right from wrong the person is mature.
lol u call 25 young? i feel old!Anyway like i said i can not afford to change job if i had the option i would have changed jobs by now.
I dont enjoy the drama and i can be proffesional but wife requests that i do not even say hello to her which makes it akward to work with her.
Its better to marry than going sleeping around, it prevenst a person from doing wrong things and is recommened to get married young in islam. And before you call me hyprocite, yes i admit i did wrong.
OK il use real english. Maturity is not dependent on a persons age, it depends on how they been brought up and how they view life. Age plays a part to an extent but once we become adults eg can tell right from wrong the person is mature.
lol u call 25 young? i feel old!Anyway like i said i can not afford to change job if i had the option i would have changed jobs by now.
I dont enjoy the drama and i can be proffesional but wife requests that i do not even say hello to her which makes it akward to work with her.
Its better to marry than going sleeping around, it prevenst a person from doing wrong things and is recommened to get married young in islam. And before you call me hyprocite, yes i admit i did wrong.
im sorry, i hope i do not sound rude, but I believe I grew up with a different mentality than you did....
marriage cannot prevent you from doing anything, it is how you set ur mind to do things that determines the outcome of your future....
I am not married, yet I have no intention of getting involve in a relationship that is wrong in anyway...
you just need to have self-control...
if you honestly think that people who choose not to get married early are all sleeping around then you are sadly mistaken
i prefer to get married later when i am finished with university and i am independent enough to make my own decisions, so i will choose a husband that will compliment me as a person...not fullfill me
u need to completely let go of the past...and for the sake or ur wife ignore her completely
and even though it is not easy to get another job, you still need to try has hard as you can
if u are college educated with a degree, you should have little problem finding at least a temporary solution
u owe it do u wife to take some sort of action...but i cannot be the judge of what u decide to do
Im sorry that i cant help you or give you advice,
The same thing happend with me i had a mate and i know him
for 3 yrs or something and suddenly he change's it looks like he
doesnt trust me anymore, but trust someone else and he is now best
buddy with her when i know that it hurt me a lot it still do.
Im still not really over it.
-Nilu-
intrestin so u sayin that u use 2 be very good frends wit a guy for 3 yrs n then he stopped trustin u. does he stil chat 2 u? but how come u stil feel hurt?surely if he has stopped trustin hav’nt u u stopped trustin em aswel?
that is good that she has left the workplace, you should feel alot better now and more comfortable...
plus as u stated, this girl u had only known for several weeks...she wasnt really ur friend...u liked her attention but u really didnt like her as a person
hopefully ur relationship with ur wife will improve now...please let ur wife know how special and important she is everyday
she is the love of ur life and now hopefully ur relationship will get better...god gives u a second chance...take advantage of it..dont do it again
hey Clubber...best way to go is...act as nothing is wrong...it works two ways...u appear proffessional ...and she appears the other way...and it usually makes the other one more mad!!!hehehe......I dont know but works for me...KILL EM WITH KINDNESS!!!!
