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Are you kidding me???
What would you do if your man was like, “Hey PCG, you need to learn how to cook better food than this crap you’ve been feeding me…”
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Banging is part of it and very essential. You dont know men my dear. Banging those who have talent is sexier. 
Regarding imparting training to rest, its boring you know. They should have the urge to do it themselves. Ironically, a lady I know sensed that his hubby is after banging another lad and is about to marry her so she over-hauled herself, cut her hair, learnt new hot manners ultimately knowing that he did marry that lady. Men are crazy..women make them.
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First of all I don’t like the idea of polygamy.. but if it is forced, then I will have all four wives please me in different ways. One for banging (you are so bad PCG), one for cooking and banging, one for cleaning and banging, and one for taking kids to their soccer games and banging.
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Assign a duty to first one as well. You are running a risk man.
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That’s right, I forgot about that. Feeding me.
You can tell that I like good food.
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Madhanee, you must have a lot of money. Why so much banking?
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Fungo my philosophy is to invest it in short term instruments. I like quick bang for the buck. That is more beneficial and good for the long term liquidity. As long as the Dow is up, you enter, make a quick profit and get the hell out.
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You know, this whole idea of marrage for sex repulses me.
So far as polygamy is concerned, sure, he can do it- right after I issue him a divorce.
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exactly …
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stupid fking reason..war or no war...marriage is about equality in building a life together..this ain't yo mama's arabia...women should be allowed to marry 4 men or as many as they can then we are talking islamic values...
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**Are you kidding me???
What would you do if your man was like, “Hey PCG, you need to learn how to cook better food than this crap you’ve been feeding me…”**
No, I’m not kidding you. First of all, if he said anything like that to me in that kind of tone, he’d be out on the couch, and if he really had no respect (I would not have married him in the first place, but true colors often come out after marriage anyway), then I’d have to punish him in the long-term.
If the situation came to be that he wanted another wife just to cook well, I’d divorce the pig on the spot. He can go marry Martha Stewart for all I care then. 
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baichara
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you're not married, are you? evil grin
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what a thread!
only if people were not to rely on translation but could understand Arabic themselves as they understand english 
PD: your sarcaism and taunt on Islam is getting better day by day that it remains hidden from the authorities. Now that I’ve highlighted it, I fear your post might be edited and you will live happily ever after as always
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Aejaz Ji,
All I know is that Islam is meant to stay till the end of the world…and So is the Quran. You cannot say that it was like that in those days and is not fit for today. For God’s sake, He knew what was going to happen a few hundred years later.
I dont know much abt statistics today, but I see more unmarried women and unhappily married men. Men to women ratio has always been unequal as far as I know.
What abt the extra marital stuff that goes on around us? It can be prevented if the society accepts polygamy.
Now U ask me If I would accept it. Well to be honest with you, I have been indoctrinated with the same thoughts as everyone else so it might be a little hard for me to swallow But at the same time I have my right to divorce, given to me by Allah if I have problems accepting.
My point is that if I am not ready to go thru with it personally, I wont twist Allah’s words and take that right away from men by saying it was meant to be for that time period only.
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^ well, rest assured you have every right to divorce if he takes on a second wife in this time and day - because the only reason for it really will be lust.
I can't really imagine many other reasons. The only ones that have been mentioned on this site previously are in situations where a man marries a woman (from his own tribe or family for example) that will be living a very unfortunate life if not married because society has too many dogs around - and the woman having problems finding someone to marry her. This often does happen in Pakistan. So the man is not too happy with the marriage, but he does it out of duty anyway. If he takes on a second wife, and both wives are okay with it, then I dont see a problem in that scenario. It was hard to swallow at first, but given the situation, I can see it could work out. But really, our society needs to work on empowering these women first so that they can be independent and not have to rely on some guy.
Really though. I find it detestible if a husband gets interested in another girl and wants to bring her into his home - if he's already married to begin with. Most of these cases are really that the hubby is bored of his wife and wants another woman. A new adventure - a new challenge, what have you. Such men just do not know what marriage really is.
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and pretty soon you will look like a nailhead banged too many times into the concrete wall.