Well that’s cuz people have a tendency to complain more than praise. How many comment/replies would you get from people if someone opened a thread saying their married life is wonderful. lol hardly any. People like juicy gossip and details, and the only way to get someone’s attention is to mention something negative…Sadly that’s how our society works.
Don’t be scared, you’re a guy, I never hear of guys being tortured anyways lol