Thanks but no thanks Madhanee. I dont trust you with my address. If I ever feel the need to bash you with a weapon of some sort, I will come to NY. Since you've already said it is ok, I wont ask whether you will tolerate it or not.
Now back to the topic. And I dont want Irshad Manji to be brought forth yet again.
I know exactly what you mean Muslim_Queen, when I convert to Islam some 14 years ago I told my mum, and she slapped my face… saying I shouldn’t even think of telling my father, so I kept it secret…till I grew up a little bit more just to see if my faith would be fading or not…then I told my father, and I saw him sad…he’s been living in muslim african countries during his youth and has a quite negative opinion about muslim societies…So I made him forget about it. I never speak “as a muslim” in front of my family, I don’t either do anything that could lead others to know I’m muslim, because of the “social norm” you were pointing at…it’s like I have a double life: inner I have faith, outside I don’t show it, only to some very good old friends…
parissenoor – Aww Im sorry to hear that. I’m sure it must be tough !! I dont really know how old you are or your situation…so the only advice I can give is that you think things through , and wait until you are of legal age - before you take any steps to contradict your parents or move out etc. I wish you the best, and I am sure things will turn out for you. Have some faith - and patience.