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I think once you get to college it may get easier. My parents were hella strict when I was in high school, and it didnt’ really work. But I’ve calmed down a bit, and I woudln’t think of sneaking around on em ever. But there is a reason a lot of these girls are “hoes”, it’s coz their parents forbid them pretty much everything. It’s a basic fact that if ur forbidden something, it’smuch much more appealing. If you’re not even allowed to talk to a guy from the time ur a kid, some day that lil rebellion bone in u is gnona grow and grow until you go crazy.
A lot of girls fk up coz they have no one to turn to when they get in trouble, adn a lot of ppl cannot accept that. I really blame the parents in this because they try to keep their really old traditions and culture alive while living in such a different world. There is no way you can live in a place and not be affected in some way. yeah you can still be cultural and religious while living in the Uk or Us, but u cannot deny the fact that ur surrounding society has affected you in ANY way.
Btw Fita, are you going to marry a cousin? Just curious.
Re: Fita Uncensored - with a new look. Better or worse?
Sara, I may do. I wouldn't rule it out. I'm not against arranged marriages.
Impulse bang on - I'm 23.
Umair. Gotta be said. Glad to see another Brit and Kashmiri around here. We need to show these Amreeekuns what we're all about. You from Cheetam Hill by any chance?
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Bro im from Crumpsall, which is right next 2 cheetham hill, and as you are aware, cheetham hill has a nice mix of kashmiris and punjabis. Funny thing is....most of them comments made by sobi...are typical of a lot of PUNJABI GIRLS round here. kasam se. no word of a lie.
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Yeah, I met a few girls like that from up North when I went to Uni in Leicester. They were so f***ed up yet they were still trying to take the piss out of Mirpuris.
I’ve got some cousins in Oldham. How far is that from you?
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Can't remember what area. One of em was a typical ****about - done 5 years in prison and has now become a barber in Birmingham. Other two guys believe it or not, one's got a PHD and the other one is a teacher.
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Sara- yh i know what you mean . I remember back when I was in middle school and I got in a fight with my mom because I wasn’t allowed to wear tank tops or shorts or skirts. Now I’m like so happy that I don’t because all those girls don’t have any respect now.
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Yea man my parents said they’re cool with me marrying anyone I like as long as they’re Muslim and they ask my parents b4 taking “further action”. LoL. Yea I still remember “the talk” I had with my mom not too long ago…
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Lol. wowwww. I had that talk with my mom just the other day. She was pretty pissed that I told her I wantd to marry a white Muslim (wh'd converted before he met me).
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OMG!! Did I tell you I know a guy who’s white (born and raised in America and all that) and his parents are Christians and everything…but he taught himself how to speak Urdu from a BOOK!!! hahah isn’t that cute!!! Hehehe.. what a sweetheart :).