finding love online.. (and else where) ;)

oy! yaay! kiyah hora haay!?? I turn around for a sec and you go and sabatoge my thread!?! stick to the topic SADZZ!!

waleed- I speak the truth of my bitter hardships & you think it's a joke!?

mehnazq- honestly these stories are true and sadly with no exaggeration.. you just can't make up stuff this funny!

aalhan- "agree to marry me??" I'm not looking for an agreement. I'm looking for someone cool that'd I'd really enjoy spending the rest of my life with..

as far as what they'd say..about me?? not much ... it's not like they give you much of a chance to talk or get to know you ..which is pretty stupid since they tend to be the ones initiating contact!?

boss- I have yet to experience that .. though I've heard some crazy stories from those who have :)

sixfeet.. honestly though it is funny it's also very stupid too..

again sadzz.. what are you doing ??!? start your own thread!

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oy! yaay! kiyah hora haay!?? I turn around for a sec and you go and sabatoge my thread!?! stick to the topic SADZZ!!
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who me? neeeeever

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again sadzz.. what are you doing ??!? start your own thread!
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i dont have enuff time to create my own... it involves thinking... sowwies

Ha ha :)

so any luck yet?

^ actually i know of a few pakistani couples who met on the net.. and then got married :) its quite amazing...

ofcourse there are many more who dont make it that far.. :(

I 'm glad to be born in a culture and family which teaches manners...

there was surely a reason islam has said the word haram to a lot of things :~) .. just for the record waqas "why did Prophet khadija sent message to Prophet pbuh?" ... even Prophet pbuh himself asked women were they okay with proposal and one can find several statements once you start READING.

everything you hear isnt true my brother.

Tell me this the girl who would go out with you ... how can you gurantee she didnt go with other guys. IF she can go with you she can surely go with others. YOu arent any special friend.

There is a reason people love to know about eastern girl...

there is nothing wrong finding a girl on your own but yeah to do things the way you are saying is perhaps wrong.

Just cause you live in Usa dont forget where you actually came from... Our country has been labeled for so many things wrong things.. dont stand against it :~)

suroor_ca02 -so any luck yet?

Oh yes! I've been very successful indeed! I think I've enough material to go on tour as a stand up comic now or perhaps write a book lol

*nia_khan -- !?!! * Where do I even start?? lol

Why is it everytime I suggest there should be a better way to do something around here someone has to go and take it to the other extreme?

Yaar you need to lighten up!

You really want to 'enlighten' me start a seperate thread.. any topic, your choice lol

>I 'm glad to be born in a culture and family which teaches manners...

uh and the relevance of this comment here is?

Finding, liking and loving someone of your own free will is a very natural, normal & healthy thing.. not another satanic import from the evils of western society.

>how can you guarantee she didnt go with other guys. IF she can go with you she can surely go with others

again where is this coming from???

but since you brought it up..

Yeah, God forbid I should find a girl who actually talks to boys! or even worse! .. may have actually had feelings for someone else in the past!?

What would I do!? She would bring shame to my entire family ! I'd never be able to show my face in public again ..there goes my precious izzat!!

I think just about every normal rational person has at least liked someone in their life..

Technically our all participating in these discussion forums would be wrong too there should be a seperate men's and women's section with absolutely no intermingling allowed..

>but yeah to do things the way you are saying is perhaps wrong.

uh..which is?

do tell! what exactly is the way I'm saying here?

>Just cause you live in Usa dont forget where you actually came from...

Just cause know how to read doesn't mean you're very good at comprehension lol

Learn to see and in this case read what's written and take if for what it is nothing less & nothing more!

*>Our country has been labeled for so many things wrong things.. dont stand against it :~) *

Hey I stand against all forms up stupidity regardless of it's race, culture, country or faith of origin lol

Look this entire post was in fun! reality based fun but still.. lol

These were just some of my many experiences that I still look back at and make me laugh!

There is no right or wrong way to meet someone that'll ensure a successful marriage and future.

As always I cannot speak for anyone else.. but so far this way is simply not working for me lol

What else can you do but laugh at the absurdity of it all..?

lovely

my brother unfortunately i dont have time right now but i love it when people quote me. DO not worry i will be back and will reply to every single answer of your....

nia's word and in bold lovely *gigling

I think its very possible to find the person you are meant to be with online. Have had several friends meet this way. I think its good only when communication channels are open, when parents know whom you are talking to and even what the discussions are often about. Have seen too many young ppl keep things secret from their family and get into lots of trouble and heartache cause of this.

Juss ma opinion. Feel free to differ.

nia khan.. i read ur message when u first posted it… but at the time i was in a bad mood already to be saying nething..

lekin.. why do u think its so wrong to find a marriage partner online? why is it haram? Islam allows us to select our respective partners whilst staying in our limits… now i dont know what kinda limits ur on about… but lemme just say one thing… man our culture puts so many stupid restrictions on just about everything under the sun!

i dont want to make this a Quran quoting or religious talking thread.. so im just gonna stop here..

Munni… yeah i know a few couples who have met online… and its really kewl :k: