Re: Find A Match! - GS zaroorat-e-rishta!
Assalam O Alikum,
I am a 30 year old Pakistani born male living in the US. Being of a certain age i am being pressurized by my family friends and peers to get married. The only trouble is that i am completely asexual and aversive to physical relations as i was abused a child. However i cannot explain this to my family and i am sure they would not understand. I am also tired of giving false excuses.
I am a very religious person and my life revolves around my religion. I do not smoke, drink, gamble or indulge in any un-islamic activities. I am 30 yet i haven’t seen the inside of a night club.
I am pretty sure that i am not alone and there are many other people out there with a predicament similar to mine. I would like to request you to kindly let me know if you know someone else (preferably from the US) who is gong through the same predicament. I believe that i am a very well rounded person however this flaw (which is not my fault and is neither in my control) is hindering me to live my life. I need a friend and life partner to share my life with who understand and possibly wants to have kids.
So i would be grateful if anyone can help me out.
Thank you.
I know someone, but not sure if she is contemplating marriage or not .. let me get hold of her first.. besides I will suggest you to seek some reverts as I have found them more accommodating than the born muslims. I am pretty sure you will come across one and if you dont mind marrying any widow or one who already has had kids, that will be a win-win situation for both brother
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