Financial Decisions

[queen_24]

Re: Financial Decisions

@PyariCgudia

Should the husband have the final say? Is that what happens in your marriage? How do you guys make financial decisions - who makes the ultimate decision and what happens when you disagree with the spouse?

Common examples would be investing money and gaining interest where one party may feel that’s haraam the other one not, and things like taking the wife’s money that she earns and making decisions on how to allocate that money.

My Husband. And its because I trust him more than me. I trust his decisions. Though he never forgets to take suggestions from me but still I give him upper hand on taking any decision because I believe, the decision he will take, will benefit both of us in any terms. And it does. This does not only applicable on financial issues, but most of the times, anything.

Doesn’t mean we don’t disagree at times, we do..sometimes… but what I have learnt from these years I have spent with him is, what he says, eventually turns out to be right.

Secondly, never had to bother about your money my money. Whatever I earn, he never asks but when he needs cash in hand (and doesn’t want to use the card for small amounts) he asks me for the cash (because usually I keep the change). I never ask him back to repay me the amount, sometimes he does and sometimes he doesn’t and I really don’t care because I never felt any difference between his money and my money.. because he doesn’t care while paying for what I shop. He always prioritize my necessities