1-single - A MUST
2-tall - most people are taller then me…Im 5’3…so I guess he doesnt have to be that tall
3-good looking - he can be average and I can definitely see myself liking someone who is normal looking but has a sense of self…meaning he knows who he is and what he wants out of life
4-extremely rich - I dont want him to be extremely rich. Because then I dont feel like its my money and I wont touch it
5-caring - this ties into loving…I dont know many people who love their partners but dont care about them
6-honest - NO COMPROMISES
7-loyal - NO COMPROMISES
8-loving - of course he has to love me otherwise why am I marrying him? You dont marry for the sake of marrying…its for love, companionship, etc. I can pay my own bills. 
9-compromising - this happens automatically. You end up compromising without knowing it…part of being loving.