feeling of got-to-get-married age

An illusion that our minds create!!! The human mind is truly boggling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

amen sista :crying:

Shukran jazeelan!!! I pray for all my sisters, nieces, cousins, freinds and for all femalekind- May Allah swt bless ALL with health , wealth , eman and happiness Ameen!!!

Re: feeling of got-to-get-married age

ager kisi k s**ual desires badh jaein, and then he/she feel like getting married even if they are in their teenage... So wht ya think is it normal or not?

One of my friend told me that mostly b/w 16-19 this happens with most of the teens, then this feeling fades, khudh hi sahi hojaati hai.

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Wow, at 21 my Mum was saying 'no way' to proposals cos she thought I was too young (and I wasn't particularly interested in marriage anyway). None of my friends or even cousins back home gets married before around 24ish, the norm amongst everyone we know seems to be mid to late twenties for girls. My brother is marrying a girl who is 24 but saw other 'potentials' upto his age (28), my Mum is pretty conservative but wanted a girl who was already 'established' and v.independent, everyone is different tho so if a girl wants to get married at 17/18 and thinks twenties is too old, that's fine as well, there should be no set rule.. Personally, marriage did not even cross my mind till 25..

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hmm.. thanx deeba baji... :)... wesay meray hi post ka reply kiya na apnay? :p.hehe.

Hyper to aap ho raheen hain main nain aap kay liaay naheen kaha jo kuch kaha aam larkion ki soach ka kaha hai.

Again AAAM larkioon ko shadi kay ilawa kuch naheen soojhta.

ap ko kesay pata? koi survey kiya hai kia? You can’t generalize it. :snooty:

Agar main kahoon haan survey kia hai to?

Aisay hi to naheen kaha na koi wajah ho gi tubhi kaha hai.

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arey wah esay kesay? kia duniya ki tamaam ladkiyon se app ka paala padh chuka.

LOL shayad isi liaay to main nain AKSAR KAHA HAI. Aur AAAM bhi kaha hai. AGar aap in donon ka matlab samajhtay/ti hon to samjhanay ki zaroorat naheen. Agar samajh naheen ati ho to poochna na bhooliaay ga. I would love to explain or answer.

well how come you know about AAAM larkia k un ko kia soojhta hai or kia nahi?

or yeh AAAM larkian kia hota hai, or Khass larkian kia hoti hain phir?

Mera khiaal hai is dunia main rehtay hain to farq saaf zahir dikhta hai.

Aaam larkiaan aam hoti hain aur khaas khaas aap khud pata karain. Kabhi maloom kar kay daikhain to pata chal jaay ga.

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Chalain aap GS ko hi daikh lain ziada tar shadi ki hi baat karrteen hain.

Agar kabhi zahmat karain to daikhiaay ga ziada taadaad main shadi wali section main users nazar aain gi.

Shaadi, shaadi aur shaadi kay ilawa baat hi naheen karteen aksaar. AGain AAAKSAAR.

Haan ki asani kay liaay meri aam o khaas ki definition hergiz GS say naheen bani hai but it seconds it.

Sub say ziada larkiaan shadi ki hi baat karteen hain honay wali hai ya huwi hai ya uski tayyari those are AAAMM larkiaan.

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ok. some chawwal.

No thanks I don't need chawal.

Aaam larkiaan aaam si hoteen hain aur Khaas larkiaan khaas si. lol

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I forgot AAm larkiaan AAAMM ki Baat karteen hain Khaas larkiaan Khaas ki baat karteen hain.

For your information Zobia as you are going ticked by this I didn't say this because of you or your thread I found this long time ago in a survey. You don't take it seriously.

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i got married at 23, was with my husband for 6 years before that, i knew it would end up in marriage but never thought of getting married before i finished my masters degree. i still had one semester left before i graduated but i got married because the year after i thought i would graduate and start working and would not have time. and everyone else in our immediate families had their schedules open, so it seemed ideal to do it then.

i also know my SIL is now 24 and my FIL is trying to frantically search for a guy for her and she has thought about marriage but doesnt care if she gets married now or in a few years, she just wants to be sure that its the perfect guy for her.

acha.
ps. i dont wana say again some chawwal.

Zobia Chawal wali you didn't tell me your education, Family background, and how rich or poor you are and how beautiful or ugly you are?