Re: feeling jealous and irritated
His family is JUST AS important as you.
How will YOU feel if he was taking you away from your family? If your brother or sister couldn't talk to you because your husband was all possessive about you? Ever thought of how much it will hurt you if your husband acted how you do towards his parents?
Be thankful to them for his upbringing, for raising him in the right manner and educating him. What you go through with your inlaws is NOTHING compared to what I have seen other girls bear. Their inlaws are monsters to say the least, the crap they have to put up with. Your inlaws don't even live in the same country as you!!!