Re: Fattening a woman
I think this thread is a joke people!
I also think DR is simply posting threads like these to get us all riled up and pay attention to him.
Re: Fattening a woman
I think this thread is a joke people!
I also think DR is simply posting threads like these to get us all riled up and pay attention to him.
Re: Fattening a woman
^^ Start a thread about attention seekers :p
I have a problem with this perspective Sadzzz ... right now if Das was asking the opposite question, your answer would be the same .. innit ?
What it had to do with respect ... if I want my wife to have a shorter haircut, does it mean I dont have respect for her hair ..
Das is not ditching his 'significant other' and running after a thicker woman, he just want see his woman this way. What is wrong with that.
a haircut is more simple than a drastic change in body weight/body stucture. Plus, the way he is asking, its not healthy (eating lots of junk food and sedentary lifestyle). Plus he appears to haev no respect for her choice of career either...if he pretty much wants to change everything about her... then why not just get someone else?
and he is getting it , big time… ![]()
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Das reich, maybe u can get better advice here. ![]()
I have a problem with this perspective Sadzzz ... right now if Das was asking the opposite question, your answer would be the same .. innit ?
What it had to do with respect ... if I want my wife to have a shorter haircut, does it mean I dont have respect for her hair ..
Das is not ditching his 'significant other' and running after a thicker woman, he just want see his woman this way. What is wrong with that.
there is definately a problem TLK..
if someone is commenting on their wife's career in a way (he said she was not smart as shes only a nurse), i call that disresect...
i think more people will have an issue with weight than a hairstyle... how many people get depressed over hair than over their weight?
the girl in question has a healthy BMI and a healthy lifestyle (from what is being said), why would anyone want to take that away from her, especially her husband to be..
please, hair and body are two very different comparisons... u can do better than that...
Talk to her about it. Maybe you can come up with a mutual compromise point.
Waisey ladies, don’t feel so bad… I mean if he wanted his woman to be thin… we’d have a problem with that… and now he wants her to be fat… again we have a problem with that.
Lo ker lo gal.
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Either way--its asking someone to change, as well as take unhealthy steps to achieve that change that's an issue.....
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Hmmmm... good point Sara. If DR could probably discuss his desires with the lady she may actually help him out.
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^if i were her and he talked about me like he is talking about her, i would kick him out.
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I think women would have an issue with it either way, not cus we're women.. but cus its actually not the right thing to do..
He should talk to her about it.. and if she's ok with it, who are we to say anything
and the issue just aint about her weight... its what he thinks of her career and her "smartness"
hmmm u guys are never serious .....
fat fetishism is BMI > 40 , for me BMI around 30 -32 is ideal
what i meant was are there any high caloric diets/formulas that i can put her on which can be disguised in other dishes
*BMI Categories: *
U want to make her clinically obese (putting her at increased risk of diabetes and heart problems) and without her noticing just cos u find that more attractive??? Sorry but that is kinda sick. Her being a nurse I'm guessing she'll have the good sense to keep an eye on her weight and hopefully tell u to get lost.
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The original poster is not looking for advice or our opinions, in any case he is totally not receptive to it anyway.
If you disagree with his approach, his feelings or his opinions, then you're wasting your time posting it on here.
If he is a troll then we're just feeding him.
And if he is not, then he deserves fair opinions and suggestions. Sure, most of us will disagree with it but that is not what is in question.
This link gives you lots of tips, including specific diet suggestions www.snac.ucla.edu/pages/Resources/Handouts/HOWtGain.pdf
Here is just a snippet:
It costs 3500 calories to gain one pound. That means, in order to gain one pound a week, you have to consume 500 extra calories every day.
Here are some tips forgetting those extra calories into your daily meal plan.
• Eat frequently! -- Make time for 3 large meals and 2-3 hefty snacks every day. • Eat larger than normal portions at meals!
• Eat higher calorie foods! -- Choose dried fruit, starchy vegetables, dense whole grain breads and cereals, hearty bean soups, nuts...
• Add lots of “extras” to food! -- Don’t eat anything plain.
• Add healthy unsaturated fats: olive and canola oil, nuts, seeds, peanut butter, avocados.
• Add healthy carbs and protein: honey, jam, dried fruit, wheat germ, nonfat dried milk powder, soy protein powder.
• Make beverages count! -- Drink shakes, milk, juice, etc. instead of water, coffee, tea, and diet sodas.
• Do resistance exercises! -- Weight training helps convert the extra calories into muscle rather than flab. Aim for 2-3 times per week.
As you can see, it will be very difficult for you to get her to gain the weight by being deceptive. As many other posters have mentioned it is best to get her to see your point of view and join you in this conquest to gain the weight.
And if you don't like it when the posters on this forum pass judgment on you, then you should set the example by refraining from calling people gender-centric slurs like "feminazi."
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^^ Maybe she's stunningly beautiful and he's insecure so thinks if he can fatten her up till she gets obese she's less likely to leave him for someone better...
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Das Reich I know you have been contemplating deeply about this issue. The answer is simple, marry her, soon she will let herself go and her weight will baloon. Tried and tested method, guranteed sucess.
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LOL! i dont know if its a fake thread or whatever....but i dont see anything wrong if either of the partner wishes to see the other in a better shape. However ofcourse it should be done n dealt with in a decent manner.
IF you really want her to put on a lil weight than talk to her about it instead of asking here. If you are being reasonable she would understand.
absolutely …its only 30-40 pounds not like 100 or so
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thankyou somehowcollide , i might try to talk to a nutrionist as well
^^ Maybe she's stunningly beautiful and he's insecure so thinks if he can fatten her up till she gets obese she's less likely to leave him for someone better...
you have a sick mentality ...i must say
i already make 4 times more than her , shes not going anywhere ....AND i make sure this time there is a pre-nuptial