Thank you for your replies guys...
Ladylama i agree that there is alot of testosterone but why cant my brother see that this man, who is our father is old and fragile. He has got a big op coming soon and needs support and more help would be appreciated. On the other hand, why cant my father see that all through my brothers life, he has not supported him and he should start now before his op if Khuda na Khasta something happens...
The fact that dad tells me all this between him and my bro, i just take it in from 1 ear and out the other. To be honest, I have never disrespected my parents and its hard for me to answer back and all i say is yes yes yes...
Right now im thinking that i need to take care of myself and I need to give priority to my baby. I am not passing their msgs to one another! I dont know....its a test from Allah Tallah cuz our family is going thru alot at the moment and all i keep thinking that inshallah things will get better...