Re: Father & Son relationship!
My father and brother dont get along eithr. and their not talking to each other coz of a fight me and my brother had. He was out of line with the things he said to me and my father couldn't stay neutral even tho i tried to not get him involved. My father in my brothers early age never new how to be with his first born and coz my brother was always dodgy and doing stupid things he would ocnstantly be getting told off and beaten but that was his fault i suppose i wouldnt blame my dad. my brother recently came back home coz he was chucked out for 2 years for wanting to marry a hindu and when he came back he seemed like he was more maturer and what not but things r slowly getting back to normal coz he's not changed
i think it depends on both parties. both of them need to come to a compromise, my dad has tried an awful lot to get along with my brother but for sum reason he keeps effing up what i mean to say is with my experience is that i suppose theres too much testosterone between the two and me and my mother are usually trying to calm the situation down.
I think u shud speak to ur father about getting u involved while ur heavily pregnant. Its not nice that ur brother has to start on u aswell. And i dont think the baby will sort things out either as the person above me said. As for trying to fix things good luck coz weve been trying for 9 years now lol. All problems are from allah just try and look forward to the new addition to ur family =)
Good luck