Re: fashion/passion to add unknown people on messenger yahoo/msn
well FB is safe as compare to orkut. orkut is full of loserz/ psycho/ retarded ppl.
in the scenario given victim might also put his hero numa picture. i dont know y but guys thinks this virtual world is safe place where no one gonna stalk them 
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whereas meeting someone is even more retarded.
p.s. i have seen good looking ppl mainly have one screw dheela. 