Assalammu Alaikum ppl... how are you all doing?
I remember in one famous pakistani drama "Dhoop Kinarey" in which a hospital had to try to cope with so many casualties because of a bomb that blew in the city and ... well, there was this particular scene where a woman had brought her seriously injured daughter to be treated and she needed an operation... the mum was really upset, by which I mean that she was completely utterly devastated and was wailing and such... and through her ramblings the first thing she remembered and cried out was that her daughter was lightly skinned - "ghora rang"...
Anywayz I'm not sure how it is in real life... but that that scene, I think, was very much plausible to me...
A lost cause, do you think?
I don't want to bore you ppl too much, but I'll try to say the next stuff quickly...
When I was at high school people thought I was not Pakistani. Why? Because I just don't look like one apparently. So I never experienced the kind of hurled insults like "Pakis" which tend to be thrown at anybody with dark skin. I was called a Jew instead. Then I was called an Arab. At roughly the same time Greek students tried to speak to me in greek before they found out that I was definitely not so greek after all.
When I went to Germany to visit a very nice Turkish family, many people asked me my ethnic origin because they just simply could not categorise me so easily... I could be from anywhere . When I replied that I was a pakistani... they said "But you don't look like a pakistani."
To be honest, this was actually quite fun and still is. But one thing I find even more interesting is that peoples way of talking and behaviour usually gives the game away... Strangely enough with me that has actually added to the confusion of people who try to find out where I am from... Because I had a very sheltered upbringing, that seemed to cover some areas of my background... of course, my Urdu has never really been any good... that definitely was a major factor...
So through experience, people do still make an issue of skin colour... some groups of people make it an issue more than others...
So to anybody who has wondered what being really light skinned is like... well there is no big deal about it... sure it can be funny sometimes... but thats about all. It does not confer any real benefits to you where I am in the UK. And thats despite what some groups of people still want to believe.
They shoot partypoopers, don't they?