family politics..

soni27 · July 14, 2008, 6:43pm

wow..aisha hell of a story..ur nani and dadi's had tough times in their lives..good to hear their situations r beter now..:)

samraali22 · July 14, 2008, 7:24pm

wat !!!!u want a round ticket to jerry springer

_Janu_Jia · July 14, 2008, 7:28pm

Re: family politics..

^^

or maury shw lolzzz

Lusi · July 14, 2008, 7:45pm

lolz

SheeN · July 14, 2008, 11:35pm

Re: family politics..

politics in my family..NAAHHHHH…but dont ask abt our relatives..but my mom and dad always make us stay away from that:khumar:

Dubaiwali · July 14, 2008, 11:55pm

yeah well they have but thank god its all sorted now..

Roshni · July 15, 2008, 2:47am

my life is full of family politics, expecially from my dad's side. we have always been target of family politics and conspiracies.

during my last tour of pakistan, i was involved in a family politics/battle, infact inlaws politics. i was so nieve and never thought such things could happen to me.

i was surrounded by people who wanted me to answer to them, and i was in such a shock, didnt knew what to do or how to react, kept staring at them.
that is when i realised that even being innocent, i needed solid support and someone who could stand up for me to face this politics. i was standing in middle of strangers who wanted to swollow me as whole.

it was such a shock and i can never face such a thing again and i decided never to trust anyone or get involved in any relationship regardless of SIL or BIL or cousins.

jalebi121 · July 15, 2008, 2:38pm

Re: family politics..

In my own family, I guess we are more Americanized so we are really blunt with each other. So even if we have a big argument it is done within the same day. If it is a really big thing, then it's all about silent treatment lol.

I think families in Pakistan are more in each other's face more often so there is more potential for problems. Also they think it is a ego ka musla if they apologize or back down.

ex of family fights.

grandma vs my mom-your parents did not give enough jaheiz
sisterinlaw vs. my mom-calling my mom bengali because she has relatives from bihar
mamoo vs my mom-mamoo took thousands of dollars from mom to develop her property (which is next to his) then she found out he was using the money for his own plot and he is planning to take over my mom's plot.

Going to Pak is really stressful sometimes cuz I would be talking all friendly to some cousin and later on someone would tell me, "tumhe nahin pata iskay nanay nay humare nana ko mukka mara tha?"...how am i supposed to keep track of that junk?

Monk · July 15, 2008, 2:46pm

How this gay culture works??? like we can marry our cousins right??
Can gays be attracted to their male cousins?? or its lol haram

soni27 · July 15, 2008, 10:17pm

jalebi121:

In my own family, I guess we are more Americanized so we are really blunt with each other. So even if we have a big argument it is done within the same day. If it is a really big thing, then it’s all about silent treatment lol.

I think families in Pakistan are more in each other’s face more often so there is more potential for problems. Also they think it is a ego ka musla if they apologize or back down.

ex of family fights.

grandma vs my mom-your parents did not give enough jaheiz
sisterinlaw vs. my mom-calling my mom bengali because she has relatives from bihar
mamoo vs my mom-mamoo took thousands of dollars from mom to develop her property (which is next to his) then she found out he was using the money for his own plot and he is planning to take over my mom’s plot.

Going to Pak is really stressful sometimes cuz I would be talking all friendly to some cousin and later on someone would tell me, “tumhe nahin pata iskay nanay nay humare nana ko mukka mara tha?”…how am i supposed to keep track of that junk?

yeah..u r soo right about the ego thing of apologizing or even admitting their wrong..omg ppl in paksitan will never do that even if they are wrong..they talk to us like we arent as proper muslims as they r bcs we live abroad but do they know that arrogance is looked down upon in islam?..NOOOoooo…

and yeah the other stuff..so confusing to keep track of whos grandparents/parents did what ong tiem ago..and still be pissed about it!..hehe..thats a tough 1..