Re: expectations/responsibilties???
hey....she doesnt really need you as much as I do!! Come on over!
joking aside, you are one special friend. After all 3 births, I was tired all the time and hungry all the time. It would have been SUCH a blessing to be able to have a nap without worrying about the boyz, or to have a nice meal cooked for me! I'm sure that nothing will be "expected" of you and if your friend is like me, she will not ask you to do anything (I feel that if we have guests then I should do everything for them). So try to do thins without asking "what can I do to help?". I'm quite sure that any food you prepare will be appreciated. (Just try to keep away from gassy foods like turnips, cabbae, broccoli, cauliflower if she's breastfeeding lol!).
...and if you find that you arent being properly appreciated,,,,,please feel free to come on over to mamaof3's house!!! :)