Thanks for sharing. The reason I asked was because my husband went through a similar situation after the death of a parent. Like the other poster above he also became very resentful but he had to work really hard to pull himself out of a hole. Only in his 30s have things now started to fall into place. It took him a long time to realize it but he finally accepted there were some things that were just not meant to be for him, mainly school wise. I still have to help remind him of it sometimes but I think he’s just finally looking to reap some of the fruits of his labor. He hasn’t been able to properly enjoy the success he has had as it has always been shadowed by so many of his family’s problems that he’s been working hard to solve. He did the same, comparing his life to all of his friends around him who had it so so much easier.