hey thanx for all the help. the wedding is inshallah going to be in dec or january. so i have time to think and plan properly.
The engagemnt is only going 2b family and just as iftar happens which is okay as iftar is around 8ish and my sister wants it low key anyway so i dont really need to worry about tht! lol reagarding bollywood film i have ONLY just started watching some ive been into hollywood and chinese horror my whole life dont have time to watch beautiful people declare their undying love to each other in exotic places!! lol [hrithik roshan so nice… haiiiii] 
dolki i hav a rough idea now on what to do. i’l post up a song list later on and got an overall GS approval. lol dolki is going to be around 100 people and mendhi will be most likely 250 people.
i hve heard tht a pakistani bride has sum tumeric applied on her, what is this tradition, dont think my sister wants that on her but out of curiosity is this common???
thanxxxxxx