well thats what i am saying, doing it for sake of doing it, takes teh spontaniuty out of it, that cud act as a turn off
thaz what i used to think too and i asked her abt it too whether her hubs will b able to go for it as and when doc said. she said its not that difficult... its definitely not spontaneous and he feels its timed but the amazin thing is, Mashallah, the hubs gets in the mood as soon as they hit the bed so its like he has no prb in gettin all hot. frm this all, i dun think he thinks its a turn off at all.