Re: Double standard?
The scenario:
She likes Brad Pitt. From following his news stories to looking at his pictures. To thinking about him.
She's engaged to a goodlooking guy. Girls stare at him sometimes, and some even try to flirt with him. She gets angry that these girls stare and possibly desire to be with him, when he already has someone.
She is disgusted when she hears of women in the community desiring married men/taken men, or flirting with those men.
Are these double standards or no? One is based in reality, the other on fantasy. Your thoughts?
Ummmmm no because her focus is on a celebrity, someone who is never going to be a part of her life. He is just a fantasy. She's not thinking about any other guy who is possibly attainable. It would be only a double standard if she got mad at him for lusting after a celebrity. Celebrity fantasies are just fantasies, they're never goign to come true.....a healthy amount is alright/not detrimental to the relationship.