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cooldude the real fun starts when you fall out of love...
its okay we all go through it welcome to adult world now you will change. Everything would seem grey or white and black.
oh i dont know if anyone else mentioned this but you will never be the same person you were....
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If it hurts that bad, was it really love?
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agree with u ...
love hurts like hell !!!!!!
there was only once a time when i fell in love with a girl ( her name was javeria ) in my highschool time.....and couldnt really tell her how much i love her and then she moved !
From that day till now I havent fallen in love everrrrrrr !... u know it was really hard for me to explain it to her how much i care about her, how much i love her, what i can do for her .. She was the only girl in my life and probably last until i get married.. :S Insh'allah if i get married with some other girl and have a baby girl , ill name her javeria :)
loved the way she smiles at me , loved the way she dresses, loved the way she talks....loves everything of her ( not in a bad sense ). I just lovvvvvvvvvvved her ..
well, love is like a deep sand , the more u get into it, the harder for u to get out ..
Everytime i see myself in a mirror , i see her..
I used to love her , i still do , and will continue to do so... ill remember her for the rest of my life , eventhough if i get married......
ooooooooooooo....... i just wish that highschool days comes back ...i wanna express my feelings to her......
i seriously cant stop loving her.......loving her is like breathing , how can i stop ?
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Agreed nia bibi. It has bound to bring changes in your personality. Some of them are going to be positives and some of them real negatives. Roll with things. It can be a wonderfully painfull and maturing ride for you.
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Loving someone this much is a blessing, why not be a man and talk to her? Dont deprive her or yourself of true feelings.
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yaar mujhay rouna aa gaya hai teri kahani sunn kar 
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ro na... its life it goes on and on and on.....
but trust me . .... mein usse itna chahta hoon....jitna koi marne waala zindagi chahta ho ..
anyway.....u will never feel the way i feel ....
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shayad ham nay bhi kisi ko aisey hi chaha...par mil na sakay!
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Good point.
I think when u love someone, when u truly love them…then if u two break up down the road, u feel hurt for a while, yes…but whenever u look back to that time in ur life, u shud feel like man, i really loved that person…it was good while it lasted.
Ur probably hurting rite now as it is a fresh wound…but with time the pain will ease. And later on when u think back to that period, and u mostly remember the good times, then u’ll know it was love…but sometimes things r just not in our “kismet”, as they say. And yes, u can fall in love many times in ur life…sometimes with the same person again and again…and sometimes with a brand new person…let urself grieve this broken love rite now, but just keep in mind that there is someone out there for u…ur true love 
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That’s horrible! I’m sorry, but how can u do that? U wana name a daughter that ur wife and u conceived togther, after a girl u once loved? That is quite disturbing, not to mention unkind to ur future wife!
Guys and gals who r not over their past loves/relationships shud NOT go on and marry someone if they r still in love with someone else! It is totally not fair. And on top of that, name their children in memory of that love 
I just think that is wrong. Sorry, i just had to get that out.
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arrrrrrrrre yaaaaar......u expect me to tell my love story to my wife... heck no!..
but yea... that name is gonna be one of the option to name the baby girl ..
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I totally agree, although you don’t intend on telling her..you’ll kind of..(for lack of a better phrase) be committing emotional infidelity towards your wife by keeping your high school’s sweetheart’s memories soo close to you.
I know it’s easier said then done, but you’ll have to try to get over it and move on.
Wouldn’t you want your wife to be totally emotionally committed to you? How’d you feel if you somehow found out that she had a similar ‘silsila’??
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It does hurts specially when u see that person over and over infront of you everyday after breakin up. At the back of your mind you decided that THAT person is no more for you BUT still when you see that person it bring back all the memory and good times and it hurts freagin more!
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saima nyc - woh ishq hi kia jis mein dard na ho...
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Lagta hai aap ka kaam logon ko dard hi karwana hai!
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But but but wat if the one u luv doenst luv u 
And wat if that name was already on ur list of baby names and they jus happened to come along 
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No i’m not saying u have to go and tell her every detail of ur past love…BUT there is something very wrong with naming ur child after an ex/crush/wotever they were.
It’s not about telling ur wife the story behind the name…ur being deceitful about it…there she will be thinking, “ahh our newborn baby, we created out of love” etc., etc…and there u will be looking at ur baby girl (that ur WIFE gave birth to), and dreaming of HER…1) it shows ur still in love with her… 2) y r u married, if ur not over someone yet?..and 3) even if ok somehow u got married and still think about HER, fine, hopefully with time u will forget her…BUT naming ur kid after her isn’t helping is it…it’s totally disrespectful to ur wife…how do u think she wud feel if she knew? How wud u feel if she named ur son after an ex of hers? Wud u be ok with that!
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To me, it doesn’t matter…it’s still love rite…u still had/have feelings for them. And if that was a name u already liked, that’s another story…BUT still, if the name reminded u of that person…then, i think it’s wrong…totally wrong to name ur kid after them, bcos u loved that person so much. Btw, i’m not talking about like naming after elders, grandparents etc…just think it’s disrespectful to name ur child with ur new spouse, after someone u once loved (in a partner sense).