Re: Domestic Violence
The FIL is sooo nice, he didn’t cause any issues. Apparently something happened with his wife in pakistan to cause her to get all worked about stuff ( my mom keeps saying that my aunts husband said that his mom co “ek saaya char geya tha”.
I know hey. What is even more sad is that it is not only her DIL but also her bhanji.
My aunts husband lived with his parents until grade 10 in Saudi arabia then moved to pakistan (w/o his parents but lived with relatives) until he got his Bachleors and then went to london for his masters. Apparently he hit my khala in love for his mom but where was his mom when she sent him to pakistan to get his studies? The mom also sent her 2nd son to pak and right now her daugther just finished her studies there. Her last son is also going to go there. Yet she just lives in jeddah with her husband.
She is also jealous of my khalo and khala being together, that is also what is causing her to do this. My mamu had a nikkah and the relatives in london did a dholki for him and my khala was sitting beside me khalo and singing and having fun but his mom made him move. like wth. She is glued to her own husband but can’t stand her son’s wife doing the same ( to a lessor extent).
Another thing is that they have completely taken over her. What i mean by this is that 5 months ago when we went to pak we wanted to take our khala along with us (we even were ready to buy the ticket for her). the husband said to my mom “i’ll let her go if you say so” acting all sweet but in the end he convinced my khala to say no to us (behind our backs) and said that she doesn’t/can’t want to go. I cried sooo much. Next year is my mamu’s wedding and she might not go because she is going to go to pakistan this feb just because her husband’s sister’s graduating that month. >:( makes me soo madddd.