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for hours huh? :s i should print this out to shame someone who can't seem to go beyond 30 secs before her "fingers are falling off" or "your bones hurt me".
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haha dont print it out for her. She may not enjoy it and have other ways to show love. I like it, he has a difficult job and it relaxes him.
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Its necessary for a healthy relationship to keep your love alive... and the best way is to express it. Now your question is, there ARE couples who don't know how to express it........ see, both of them should understand eachother, take some time to know your significant other!! expression with sentences is not necessary to make someone realise how much you love him/ her. Care is the another way of expressing love, even if your wife is tired and you preparing the dinner can also be the expression of love....BUT again, its necessary that the other partner values it and understands it....... sometimes you shouldn't wait to hear I LOVE YOU from your partner, BUT to realise yourself.. how much your partner loves you........and IT is call UNDERSTANDING! that's why they say, Great Understanding and Loyality make a wonderful relation!
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I highly recommend this book: The 5 Love Languages®
If you scroll down, you can see the 5 love languages briefly described. Often one spouse may be saying I love you by doing things for the other person, but the other person doesn’t speak that “language” and needs to “hear” I love you a different way, maybe with words maybe with shared time together. Someone else maybe be giving lots of presents and material things, but recipient really doesn’t care about stuff, they want action, or affection.
I have found this very useful in analyzing people and relationship miscommunications.
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^ I have recommended that book several times on GS. One of the best books on relationship. My wife's primary love language is words of affirmation and mine is quality time.
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my husband and me have different ways of showing our love for each other. we've been married almost a year, and for the first few months we used to say the "i love you" thingy every other day, but we both stopped doing it after a while. we both agreed that we valued each others " i love you" if we said it less frequently, when we actually meant it. that works better for us somehow.
in terms of what i do for my husband to show my love, i give him head, shoulder, back massages sometimes. he has 12 hours shifts at work, and gets really tired, and is frequently sick as well. he loves being massaged and praises me no end during and after the massage which is sweet. he says i have "the messiahs healing touch " ( not sure what that means, but something good i guess).
his way of showing love for me is taking me our for a coffee or late night snack if I'm craving something , even if he's very tired. he knows i love pomegranates , so he makes sure to get me some when he sees them at the store. (pomegranates make me unbelievably happy for some reason )
this may not sound like much, but i appreciate what he does for me , and the same goes for him as well. we don't have to profess our love to each other all the time to know that we love each other, we know it : )
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this may not sound like much,
On the contrary, this speaks volume. Its the little things that make the difference
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clearing throat
Oh hello TLK 
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hi niks 
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hi
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^
LOL
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We have discussed this topic three years ago. :smilestar:
Lot of good tips direct from womenfolks:
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/287986-women-what-kind-of-proof-you-want-that-your-husband-loves-you.html
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Someone ban Mirch and D6C from the forums 
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barhi “chichori” bat ki hai ap ne wese
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who would know of this website but you ..
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decent chichoray hain na
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liken yee check kareen k decency ka daaaman hath sai nahi chora