Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

[wheresmycookie]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@canpaki

excuse me:naraz:…not like u can…

ps…how are u?..

how am i? bari jaldi khayal aya tumhe

[phatima]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

Usually guys are pretty generous to give women the seats on buses, I've noticed.

[canpaki]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@wheresmycookie

how am i? bari jaldi khayal aya tumhe

…hehe..aw..okok i no long time hvnt talked……no cool down

phati…ive noticed to:hmmm:

[wheresmycookie]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@phatima1

Usually guys are pretty generous to give women the seats on buses, I've noticed.

of course

[Submission_To_Peace]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

I made a mistake to offer my seat to a sister of almost my age, and I think she misunderstood it as if I am not considering her a sister and am influenced by her beauty, which was evident from the response full of pride. From that day I usually don't give up my seat for any sister of nearly my age. If I see a sister standing uncomfortably in between many guys, I simply leave my seat and stand at one corner, without offering her. IF she wants to sit, good for her!, otherwise, I don't care.

[chacha_Ghalib]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

caz men are nicer and more caring than women :p

[canpaki]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@Submission To Peace

I made a mistake to offer my seat to a sister of almost my age, and I think she misunderstood it as if I am not considering her a sister and am influenced by her beauty, which was evident from the response full of pride. From that day I usually don’t give up my seat for any sister of nearly my age. If I see a sister standing uncomfortably in between many guys, I simply leave my seat and stand at one corner, without offering her. IF she wants to sit, good for her!, otherwise, I don’t care.

aw…

sum girls..

[Heera]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

I always leave seat for Elder, tired, have lots of shopping bags, pregnant lady or lady with kid.

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Alhamdolillah.

[kingshah]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@Submission To Peace

I made a mistake to offer my seat to a sister of almost my age, and I think she misunderstood it as if I am not considering her a sister and am influenced by her beauty, which was evident from the response full of pride. From that day I usually don’t give up my seat for any sister of nearly my age. If I see a sister standing uncomfortably in between many guys, I simply leave my seat and stand at one corner, without offering her. IF she wants to sit, good for her!, otherwise, I don’t care.

Brother, it must have been those eyes of yours that deceived the Ukhthi :). Try looking down next time.

[hareem01]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

Once travelling(standing) in a bus in London with my huband, a muslim man with beard in his mid 20s left his place for me to sit, and I was'nt even pregnant and was hijjabless(was'nt wearing the scarf).This incident led me to study islam and wear hijjab Alhamdulilah.May Allah reward him in this world and in aakhira.

[Heera]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@hareem01

Once travelling(standing) in a bus in London with my huband, a muslim man with beard in his mid 20s left his place for me to sit, and I was'nt even pregnant and was hijjabless(was'nt wearing the scarf).This incident led me to study islam and wear hijjab Alhamdulilah.May Allah reward him in this world and in aakhira.

Masha Allah.

Lots of people leave seat for me even Ungraiz due to my scarf.

When I leave seat for others lots of ppl look at me smiling.

[Submission_To_Peace]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@kingshah

Brother, it must have been those eyes of yours that deceived the Ukhthi :). Try looking down next time.

Edited: Thanks brother for the sincere advice. Though I try my best, I would be inshAllah more careful in future, by the grace of Allah.

[sweetpoison]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

In subway i give my seat to anyone who is old/pregnant/fat/disabled/looks weak/ kid/ or anyone else who looks like having trouble in standing.............SO you will see me standing all the time:D

[Submission_To_Peace]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

It is nice to see these days that more youngsters practice this act. Alhamdulillah ! :)

[K337]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@Submission_To_Peace

I have found it to be quite common in Pakistan that people give up their seats for elders who are standing while traveling in buses, trains or even if there is no place to sit in any waiting room ( in banks , hospitals etc. ) I have seen that it is quite rare in the west.

Your views ?

i do i guess:hmmm: in gathering

but not while travelling

[Aqls]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@James_Bhaand

ab tu loog mairay liyaay seat chooRnay lagay hain

:Dumar ho gayi kya..?

[zobia]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

yep…always no matter what.

once some jewish old man said to me, “you know you are muslims”

well i just smiled

[goodBabu]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

Aik Dafa ka zikar hey hum Train pey ja rehey they, raat key waqet aik Baba Jii aye aur farmaya " baita hum ko zara Kamer seedhii kerney do", Ab subah tak Baba jii kamer seedhii kertey rahey.....Aur hum apnii masoomeeyat ko kostey rahey...

[zobia]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@goodBabu

Aik Dafa ka zikar hey hum Train pey ja rehey they, raat key waqet aik Baba Jii aye aur farmaya " baita hum ko zara Kamer seedhii kerney do", Ab subah tak Baba jii kamer seedhii kertey rahey…Aur hum apnii masoomeeyat ko kostey rahey…

kuch nahi hota…ALLAH SWT ajar denay wala hai

well u anecdote reminds me of that lill kid who stood whole night with the glass of water for her mother.

sorry forgot his name :hinna:

[goodBabu]

Re: Do you leave your seat, for elders ?

@zobia

kuch nahi hota…ALLAH SWT ajar denay wala hai

well u anecdote reminds me of that lill kid who stood whole night with the glass of water for her mother.

sorry forgot his name :hinna:

Jii yaqeenan, Allah sab ko Mohabat aur Ihtaram key Izhar men Derya dilii sey Nawazey.