I always tell my husband before i take money from his wallet, so that he knows it. Or if he has his wallet with him, i ask him for money.
Asking money from ur hubby, i dont see that as being dependant on him. Because i know he wont refuse me, but give it right away. And it makes him feel like a good and caring hubby :)
yes thats what i do coz if at any point in life he learns that i was pulling money out of his wallet he will be hesitant to trust me